Thursday, September 30, 2010

The JOY of Being Single.... ^__^

Hahaha.... i got bored, & this is an interesting topic.... kan? kan? kan?

But just before u people make any conclusions, i just wanna say tat this is my own opinion... for NOW... I'm not bitter.... I'm just young... I'm too young to take "LOVE" seriously.... & I'm too young to be commited.... so to the youngins out there... enjoy being single while you can.... or else it will be GAME OVER...



Hahha.... anywayz I'm now a free, single, n available but not in the mood for love, human being now, and it feels great.... of course after breakin up does hurts a lil (eventhough I'm the one who ended it), but I'm feelin better now. Its normal to feel like crap for a while, then after that we just move on lah... Trust me, at this age, there lots more things to worry about than "LOOOVE"..... "LOOOVE".... not so important now loh...


Let me give u ppl an example on why "LOOVE" is not the most important thing for me now... & yes this is based on personal experience...


Before this i had a job... a super sucky job... i felt like my future is DOOMED...tapi i have a kinda "good" boyfriend who "understands" me & can "help" me to go through with all the shit at work.... but yet, I feel like my life SUCKS! DOOOMED!!!! No FUTURE!!!! Total darkness!!!


And now, I had a new job.... super awesome job... I can see that my future is brighter than before... tapi i dont have a boyfriend to share my joy with.... but yet i feel AWESOME! I actually feel colourful on the inside... XD


So wat kesimpulan can we get from this situation? I dont need a boyfriend to make me happy... Wat I needed is actually a good job to make me happy... hahaha.... so when i said "you were someone that I never knew I needed", turns out I didnt really need you all along... ^__^


Still not convinced? Allow me to proof to u people that being single is isnt so bad....in fact, its not bad at all...


1st! U will have more money! Hahaha... seriously.... my phone bill when i had a BF was RM80++ minimum... but when i'm single only RM20++..... About 60 bucks difference.... If i keep that 60 bucks for the 5 months that my relationship lasted, i can buy myself a pretty O.D.M watch.... Other than phone bill, you dont have to pay for ur dates... Yes, I am a girl, but i do pay for my dates sometimes... share-share ma... but guys, u know wat I'm sayin rite? Kecian lah kena bayar untuk awek makan & tengok wayang... haha.... But when single, you only pay for you and ONLY you..... And during birthdays, or their parents birthdays, you dont have 2 buy anything.... no need to susah-susah pikir wat to buy.... hahaha hassle free!


Seriously.... think about it... money rulez.... money does buy happiness.... money helped me a lot to get through the crappyness.... money can buy pretty things to make you feel good bout yourself..... just look at my Retail Therapy post ^_^


2nd! You will have more time for family & frenz.... i remembered when i had a bf, i didnt really spend much time with my family & frenz.... asyik dating je... haha XD.... plus he's the cinak type ..... so he doesnt really understand family values.... hahaha...


3rd! you have more time for yourself! Hahaha... seriously... do you know how many episodes of Gossip Girls & Ghost Whisperer that i missed? The WHOLE FREAKIN SEASON!.... huhuhu ketinggalan seh.... so sad... dunno wat happen liao.... can anybody download for me plz??? pretty plz??? huhuhu.... kk back to havin more time for yourself.... i now can on9 the whole day, update my blog more frequently ^__^ and just chill... enjoy life!


And lastly.... YOU WILL BE FREE!!!! Other than my parents, i dont have to report to nobody else but me.... i can freely do watever i want, n whenever i want.... i can go and minum2 sampai mabuk, can go to gay bar (which i did... haha), can on9 till late, can forget to drink water, can mix around with who ever i want to, I can openly admit that i have a HUGE crush on Micheal Scofield/Wenthworth Miller (my Micheal) AND I can simply look at other hot lookin guys. AWESOME!.... & I dont have to report to my bf where I'm goin, or who I'm goin with.... Seriously, even my parents dont ask tat much...... if you had a clingy bf like i had, u will understand wat I'm sayin....


My Micheal..... @__@ Hawt....

So to all the ladies, if a man doesnt appreciates you, LEAVE him... if a man doesnt love you for who you are, LEAVE him... if a man keeps on lying to you and is torturing you physically & emotionally, LEAVE HIM!!!..... This goes for guys also ^_^.... In conclusion if he doesnt love you anymore.... just walk away... & end it, eventhough you still love him truly, madly, deeply... I remembered a line from a TV series... "If you let something go, and it comes back, then its yours..... If it doesn't, then its not" Kalau dah xde jodoh tu, biarkan saje lah...


Its ok if nobody loves you, but the most important thing is that you need to love yourself.... because you freaking deserve it!!!


But to all lovey-dovey couples out there.... I'm sure you ppl are happy kan? I know the feeling.... best lah jugak ade bf yang can drive you around, pay for your food, and also movies. Its also nice to have someone to talk to & be sampat with.... hahaha... n those sweet talk & lies..... those are the best!.... untill you found out the truth.... hahaha....... I think I'll just stop there.... dont wanna ruin anybody's relationship.... hahaha... may all the lovey dovey couples out there be happy together "forever" & alwayz.... ^_^


So to all young single people out there....relax!.... we are young.... we are free.... Why so serious? When the time comes, it comes..... I've been in both worlds..... Both has its own pros n cons.... So its up 2 you lah.... but to my frenz out there yg tgh emo-emo coz xde awek (u know who u are), relax lah... I'm sure she's out there somewhere.... hahaha...

As for me, I'm happy with the way things are rite now.... & I'm gonna ikut what my man John Legend who says.... "We're just ordinary people, maybe we should take it slow"...... or remember the lines from that Phill Collins song? "My mama said you cant hurry love.... No u just have to wait... She say love dont come easy..." Hahaha... so sabar je lah ye...

Take it slow, jgn serious-serious.... ikut mcm saya ^_^... if I take my relationship seriously, I'll still be with that lying bastard who doesnt appreciates me, IF I was serious, I'll probably be working in Genting right now x_x leaving my family n frenz in Melaka... & IF I was serious, who knows lah, I might get knocked up and get married at the age of 21....HAHAHAHA! *touch wood*.... *hug wood*....*kiss wood*....


And also for those who are afraid to be in "LOOVE", hahaha i been there before.... all I can say is life is short.... its OK to experiment sometimes.... try somthing new before its too late.... ^__^

And a lil advice to a fren of mine who have said this before, "Love is a waste of time & you cant be yourself".... I 100% disagree with you coz being in a relationship is all about being yourself.... "LOOVE" is about accepting each other's flaws & not pretending to be someone you are not.... If the person can accept your cacatness, then that is "LOOVE"...



Anywayz to celebrate my awesome single self, guess wat i got for myself? Nooo not a new bf.... hahaha.... aku tak desperate lah......hahaha.... I bought myself a ring.... CUSTOM MADE!!! CUSTOM MADE RING!!!!! Muahahahahaha!!!.



KAWAiiiiii ne!!!!! F-ing FANTABULOUS!!!! Quite expensive but I deserve it! ... Yume Custom Made Jewelry. I waited for a month for you.... Haha thats why i posted this lambat.... i actually drafted this post about a month ago... Muahahaha finally got my precious Yume....

OOoooo pretty.....


Pretty rite???... Berbaloi aku tunggu... berbaloi eventhough its a lil expensive...... its worth it! ... See ladies, you dont need a man to buy u a ring.... plus lets face it, they tend to buy really ugly ones anywayz.... Lazo? LAME-OO!!! Hahhaa....

Diamond ring from Lazo... My kucing nye taik hidung lagi besar then the diamonds ler.... XD

A good friend of mine asked me y i bought this ring... I think ade maksud tersirat in the question based on the look on her face..... Hahaha....Watever lah.... I dont need to explain myself..... I'll let the ring do all the talking.... Beyonce says "if you like it, then you should put a ring on it".... I LOOVE me! So I put a ring on me... hahahaha....


It spells V-R-I-E-S-I-A, AWESOME!!!!


Hahahaha.... I'm 21 & i can buy a ring like tis.... imagine if i'm older, & earning more money.... MUAHAHAHA custom made ring with some kick-a$ rock.... hahaha... DARE TO DREAM people.... hahaha.....

Hahaha see... its not bad being single rite? enjoy it while you can.... or else nanti dah kahwin then cannot be single edi loh.... unless u get divorced or your "soulmate" dies XD... hahahaha.... kk *touch wood* * touch wood*.....


But now for me, I'll just appreciate wat i have right now.... My family, career, cats, career, frenz & career... did i mention career? hehe... I'm happy with what I have right now... eventhough having that special someone will be like a cherry on top of a chocolate sundae. But at least I have all my family & frenz & career. If I dont have them, it will be like ketupat without sambal udang, pizza with no cheese, or like sushi with just the nasi oni.... XD hahaha....


Anywayz I can take care of myself.... I am an independent woman.... I depend on me... MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA! & as for the future... I just dont wanna think about it... commitment seems scary for me.... so its best not to think about it... When the time comes, it comes... if it doesnt..... then oni I'll think lah.... HAHAHA!!!


So all single people, dont be emo... dont be bitter... LETS SPREAD THE "LOOOOVE"

Saranghae!!!!


Klah thats all from me... n all together lets sing the Happy Happy Song..... ^__^

"Sing a happy happy happy happy happy happy song"
"Sing a happy happy happy happy happy happy song"
"Sing a happy happy happy happy happy happy song"


Hahaha... yes, it goes on and on and on and on..... HAHA HAPPY ^__^

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And to Ryan, it wasnt an easy decision to let u go... But i know its a right thing to end "us".... coz I always knew tat our relationship would never work out...


& like Joshua said "Vriesia like nerd, then u pulak like a$$hole, boleh jadi ka?" Hahaha... As much as i hated him, the bi@tch is right... you are an a$$hole... hahaha & that we would never work out.... so it is best not to waste each other's time & emotions... & money.... besides at least now u have a new prettier chunkier GF who can be by your side all the time in Genting....N now u can go back to being an Ah beng again... hehehe....


Lucky I didnt ask u to stay here kan? ^__^


I truly am happy for u... may u & your new prettier, chunkier GF be happy "forever", get married, have a dozen of mini ah bengs & ah liens in your big bungalow, eating your favourite pandi dishes everyday... hahahaha..... ^_^


& sorry if i ended things through SMS just like tat... but then u dont wanna pick up my call ma... then u got no balls to see me also...haha... chicken >_<>


anywayz somthin tells me that you wanted the same thing as well, just that u didnt have the balls to admit it...


Just too bad that i lost a good friend. I actually thought that you will be cool enough to accept us as friends.....but by looking at the way you treated your ex-friends & the amount of real frenz u have, I know thats not gonna happen... & u even deleted me in FB >_<.... haha damn funny siak...i guess u really hated me huh?... well, i know the emotions that i supposed to have is angry & sad, but somehow i thought it was funny.... it is sooo pathethic, it is funny...& I did feel sad... but sad for you... oh btw, do you know that your ex-good friend had blog post dedicated to you? He didnt write your name but its quite obvious who is the f-ing bastard he's talking about.... hahahaha....oh well, life goes on....


But I must say Thank You, for all the sweet memories & sweet lies,


Thank You for being able to tahan all the bullshit, nonsense, & sampatness that I have put you through...


Thank You for being my driver ^__^


Thank You for always membebel-ing & reminding me to drink water.... now i automatic always drink water liao... & no more nose bleed... ^__^


Thank You for breaking the wall of trust, bcoz now after rebuilding & renovating, the wall is bigger, taller, better, & stronger.... it is so awesome that no other lying bastards can go through easily.....& bcoz of u, I am now a stronger person..

Thank You for admiting that you have lied to me, coz then I know that I have made a right decision letting you go.... k lah k lah, kira still got balls lah 2 admit... so still got hope for ur 1 dozen of mini ah beng & ah liens.... XD


& Thank You for being my lab rat to proove that my theory is right.... Men cannot be trusted ^__^ especially the ones who look like they're selling pirated DVD.... HAHAHAHA! jk...jk...


Well now, you dont have to worry bout me anymore, or even act like you're worried... I'm fine on my own, unlike u.... always so needy... thats why I let u go, so that u can have someone to be with u over there 24/7.... mummy's boy :P


Haha... hope now u know why I always laugh whenever you said "forever"...... haha still makes me laugh whenever i think about it..... "forever"..............bullshit lah! & I also hope next time, u wont need a "chick" to make all the decisions for you....woose XP


So in conclusion, I just wanna say thanks for the 1st four months of true happiness... the 5th months was kinda like being with someone else... Sometimes I wonder what happened that guy that I felt for? I really do miss him.... Anywayz thank you my fren....... U were good to me, sometimes a lil too good untill u kinda spoiled me XD but I'm sure we'll both find someone better...I know u will, coz u kan alwayz say I very jahat XP nyek nyek.... & who knows, that rebound girl of yours might just be "the one"..... ^__^

n as for the lies that you've told me... I sincerely forgive you from the bottom of my black, ice cold heart.... XD


So, if you're reading this,


Good Luck to you & all the best to you, my fren, my Ah Beng ^__^




& to Ivan... i hope now u understand why I said no.... ^__^

coz being single is AWESOME... n coz i dont TRUST u... ^__^


^_^ *sing a happy happy happy happy happy happy song* *sing a happy happy happy happy happy happy song* ^_^

13 comments:

Pav said...

ivan??..ngeh ngeh ngeh...vsia,ur post makes me feel more semangat for being single!! woohoo!! btw,i love the ring!!

Elaine said...

Luv this post. hehehe. AWESOME Ring. can i get 1 for myself? hehe.

Pav said...

lepas geram nye post...vsia,kalo bukan odm watch pun,blh beli anna sui nye perfume ek...

vee-sia said...

haha ee lin, of course u can get 1 for yourself... we are independent woman! we can buy our own ring!

papapapapapaDOM: ivan??? @__@ haha ini bukan lepas geram... ini meluahkan perasaan... haha x mau perfume lah... now tgh budget utk aku nye watch... hehe....

Pav said...

kan u ada mention ivan in the las 4 line...kalo single,blh flirt eh...XD...

vee-sia said...

ade ke?? ngeh ngeh.... hehe biase ler... freedom babe! ^__^

Anonymous said...

ehhh... where u get the ring?> i wanna get it! how much ah? tq.

Pav said...

ada...buat2 tak tau pula...yeah..and no guilty..wakakaka...

vee-sia said...

haha mr/ms. anonymous u go check out Yume Jewelry... they have a shop in KL... the price is depends on how many letters ur ring have...

papapapaYa... yaloh2 can flirt sepuas puasnye.... muahahahha..... XD

COMmander17 said...

Seem like i am the only guy to post comment... but oh well.. cant say i really support your post... if i did i would just be betraying my kind... but phone bill is significantly cheaper and can actually go out with other chicks without feeling guilty.. its kinda awesome i guess..

vee-sia said...

how does supporting single life betraying "your kind"? ANYWAYZ, this post is not to gain "support"... this is just to express joy & appreciating things I have & I dont have....Aiseh, Mr. Sensitive terover sensitive pulak.... XD

OBIT LIVRE said...

love the ring too ! how muchhh hah? TETIBA JE ! haha. HAHA i loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee this post so much, it is true about being single. We are way free, cuma all the fucking lies bila teringat sakit la :-) but u know what im regaining each day sbb tu cant wait to see u guys lah MUCH LOVE SAYANGGG!

vee-sia said...

hehe nice leh... stay strong kedut! cant wait 2 see u 2.... lotsa LOOVE ^__^